Begin Again

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    Sometimes, We want to begin again with someone new and get out of our past life. It was having relationship with someone else. But, sometimes we want to fix our past relationship and it's not easy or it's kind of impossible because it's like a bird, bird has two wings to fly and in our past relationship only one wing wants to fly but the one does not. It means, Only us wants to fix it but our ex-partner doesn't even care about it. He or She is always fickle person. People  who wants to come and go whatever they want and never think about our feeling. Our ex-partner always give grey sign. It was not black or white. So that's why our relationship is never end.

   Occasionally, We have so much to think, We have got so much to feel inside, We have got so much questions That no one seems to know.

 

The Solutions From me to Face This Case :

1) Try to Communicate and See our ex-partner pattern.

When you have tried to communicate what your feeling to your ex-partner but your ex-partner always avoid the questions and your ex-partner is fickle person. I mean, She or He comes and goes whenever they want moreover always give you same pattern and the pattern is something cannot help you to grow up. You had better be firm to stop letting him or her to come into your life.

2) Engage with Someone new.

Don't close your heart for your ex-partner. Start from now, Try to open your heart to fall in love with someone new. If you can't fall in love with someone new easily. Start from learning someone new character, the way she or he treats you

 3) Get Out of City which You Meet Her/Him.

When you visit or leave in new city or county. Everything will be change and the potential, you see your ex-partner decrease moreover New Place, New experience. It means, you can meet someone new who can add value into your life Probably, She or He can be your new partner.

 4) Hone your Capabilities.

Learning new things, for instance hone hard skill and soft skill which is adding value into your life. From this case, you can know more about yourself. What's your needs and wants, What kind of someone's trait fits into you.


Something that can be fixed, you need to try it first and give up when you use your logical, it will not be worthy again, you can stop doing shit things and begin again to continue your life.

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