VIRUS

 

Have you ever thought that you are a virus in someone's life ? 

 

In my point of view about virus now, you are a toxic person . I mean, you distract someone's life or vice versa, there's someone is a virus in your life. 

I think, all of us have been a virus in someone's life . Why ?

 

I have ample reasons from different aspects .

 

1) Friendship environment

I think, you have ample circles in friendship. It could be your friends in college, senior high school, junior high school, primary school, kindergarten,  organization, community, buisness, social media so on . I think, you have ever found people are virus in your life or vice versa, you have ever been a virus in people's life.

In this aspect, it has large place to find the virus. 

For instance :

1. College circle 

There's someone influence you to stop submitting task before deadline by throwing ample arguments . It means, He or She is a virus in your life because you can't be a better person.

 

2. Organization

In college or school, you can find organization which was provided by college or school. In that place, you can find virus also . for instance, people in the organization influence you to skip class in order to join organization basically your priority and the most essential concept is your class but you skip class since you often get virus from them . It means that you can't be consistent person since you can't maintain yourself in your priority.

 

2) Family environment

You have goals which you want to achieve yet your family judge your ability,

they don't support your goals due to their words make you are not confident to get them. It means They are a virus because they throw shit words which is they don't have right to judge you. Because it's not their buisness.

 

3) Love environment

If we talk about love, it has some circles in this case, it could be love with your ex boyfriend/husband, your partner now I mean your boyfriend/husband, your girlfriend/wife, someone who love you or vice versa.

Alright, I am going to give a example from this case.

For instance, You have an annoying ex boyfriend. basically you don't want to communicate with him at all but he still bother you. I mean he try to influence you to remember everything about you and him in the past moment in which you and him in relationship. In fact you don't want to remember it again because you have felt worn out. It means he is a virus in your life as he try to make you stuck with him. 

 

4) Work environment 

You have colleague in a company in which you work, so you have task for teamwork. You get a chance to be a leader in that team, it means you have responsibility to lead your team in good way hence you ask your colleagues to do the task before deadline but there's a person is not discipline person. It is tough to remind him to submit the task before deadline. Due to one person distract your group's performance. It means he is a virus in your group. Literally, you can handle your group but the reality, due to one person decrease your performance as a leader.

 

5) Neighbor environment 

You live in the toxic neighborhood. They often to be nosy people about someone's life and they often gossip about unimportant concepts. Due to you are their neighbor also, you often being their object in gossip moment. It means they are virus in your life because they try to bring your life into their unimportant conversation which is it is not their business.

 

6) Plant environment 

Without we realize, we often ignore plant around us, I mean like we don't take care them properly but we kill plants by stepping on them, not watering them etc. It means we are virus for plants.

 

From some of my perspective, have you realized that you are in a virus circle or vice versa you are a virus in people's lives ? You can analyze it by asking yourself honestly. Hence you can decrease the virus . Start from yourself first.

 

• Okay, that's all from my perspective about virus . See you in the next  chapter .