Be selfish for yourself.

            Self love is the best thing to detract bad emotions which come from external. For instance when your coeval friends have good career and you compare yours with theirs. You are gonna be disconsolate because you don’t have same thing with them but literally when you ask your condition, you don’t need what they got. I think this emotion is kinda delude & demagogue yourself to be ungrateful person.

            As you often compare yourself with others. You think your life is fuck up and you often feel debacle. Without you realize it, you are denigrate yourself. yet, if you have self-love. You are gonna be understanding about your weaknesses, strengths, needs, privilege, everything about yourself. if you know them , I think you are gonna stop comparing and discerning yourself with others. Because you know that you and others have divergence that it’s not totally fair tobe compared.

            Your life only yourself understand it because you undertake your activity, bad / amazing emotions etc and vice versa , other people feel like that. From loving yourself, you are gonna know how to attenuate your debacle and embody your dreams easily.

            You can start loving yourself from small things. For instance: Do self-talk , Make sure that you influence your brain with positive words. It can be like ‘hey, I’m good enough just the way I’m.

               

            Don’t be credulous with people’s words that make yourself is fuck up . it can decrease your self-esteem. Don’t be craven person. Their opinion is not define yourself. you can grow up with all your strengths and weakness. Being honest with yourself hence you can ignore what people about you which is not good.

 

don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket.

-diansariislamy-