No need to share everything in social media.

 

Should we always share our activities in social media ? 

I live in digital era, In my point of view, 90% of population in this world, They have social media . I mean like : WhatsApp, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Youtube, etc. From social media, we can communicate with people easily. Although, we are far from our family, friends, partner etc, we can still have good communication with them .

Due to social media, many people double filter their life, they just show the best side from their life, hence people are going to assume that they are the happiest person in this world. But literally, In my point of view, 80% what we see in social media about someone's life is not totally true . I mean, even though They hang out every days with their friends, it doesn't mean that they have a lot of true friends, they are always happy, they don't have a problem. We are just human, We have ups and downs in our life. 

In my point of view, We don't need to share our daily activities in social media . I mean, if you hang out with your friends, eat delicious foods, get brilliant acivements, make high income, have new boyfriend etc, all of them which relate with our activities , we don't need to share in social media if you don't feel like sharing . I mean, being, Nobody on instagram is so peaceful . Why? Because : The privacy is more necessary for our life so that's why people can't judge our life easily .

For mental health is not good for sharing everything you did in every moment. 

Why ?

1) you are going to addicted to post everything about yourself.

If you always do same things in everyday . It is going to be an habit . Your brain will have opinion that it's kind of obligation hence you have to do it . Even though it is not necessary to share in social media . 

2) People are going to assume you based on your status in social media easily . 

For instance : if you always post delicious food in social media everyday and then suddenly you have never post again. People are going to define you are broke moreover your life style has changed. But basically, you forgot to post it .

3) Your privacy has published in social media . 

For instance : you have boyfriend moreover you often post pictures with him everyday, suddenly you delete all of the pictures . People are going to have perspective that you are not in relationship with him again . Literally, it is true but based on my perspective it kind of ashamed thing because people know that you are feeling blue in this moment .

4) People will judge you bad person.

 For instance : when you post picture with girl who has done bad concept and you post pictures with the person when the person did that concept. People are going to assume that you also do the same concept because you are in that circumstance. But basically it's untrue.

5) You don't focus on the moment.

For instance : when you hang out with people and you are more focusing on taking good pictures of you for posting in social media than focusing on the conversation with them. But basically the most valuable is creating valuable conversation hence you can be productive person as you can bring valuable memories.

• And many more the reasons about sharing everything in social media is not good . You need to clarify more specifically which one is good to share in social media, what benefits of your status for everyone, moreover you post when you feel like sharing if you don't want to post it, don't post it yet if you think it's privacy, you need to consider again .