Are you in Quarter Life Crisis ?

This topic is booming now . In my point of view, 90% happen in transformation from teenager hood into adulthood. Because from research on social media,my friends, my family who has ever in the zone which transformation from teenager hood into adulthood.

Based on my perspective, Quarter Life Crisis is the concept in which someone feels his life is meaningless. it happens, due to ample aspects . This concept happens when they transform from teenager hood into adulthood. I mean people are in 20s. Do you feel like knowing why it happens to y'all? 

Alright, I am going to reveal my perspective about this topic.

1) You compare yourself with others 

Believe or not, when you compare yourself with others. It has bad impact into your mental health . You are going to feel that you are an unworthy person .

For instance : you are 25 years old, you have friends who have same age with you . You know all of their amazing achievement, fancy career, romantic relationship etc. You try to compare yourself with them . You feel that you are meaningless because you don't have what they have in your age now .

2) Social Pressure.

Sometimes, you can not control people's opinions about your life . Yet, you can control your mind. For instance : you are in 25 years, you still don't have partner in relationship . So your family always ask you question : " when will you marry? " . This is kind of annoying question. Marriage is not cheap concept. Marriage is about commitment which people must keep until they have pass away.

3) Social Media. 

No wonder guys, social media can be one of the aspects trigger you are meaningless as social media, people double filter their life . They just show the best version of them . You don't know the true of their version .

4) Your Planners

Some of people like to have scheming about their life hence they have time-table to reach all of their goals . But they can't get 100% their goals. It's up to you guys, if don't want to believe , basically we are just human , we can't control our future even though you have 100 hundred strategies to get all of your goals sometimes God say No to our goals in order to save our life. 

5) Life Style

Due to have fancy life style can trigger you that you are not cool person because you can not follow fancy life style . Guys, I just want to say "you don't have to look likes fancy person in order to get attention from people around you, the most valuable thing is your mental health condition, if you are happy with your current situation, why do you have to follow them? ".

Anyway guys, if you are in Quarter Life Crisis now, you are not alone . Many people have ever in that moment . You must know that we are human we can't control our future, we are different (we don't have same time to grow up, different purpose, different the standard of happiness etc) so you don't have to feel that you are a meaningless person. You are cool just the way you are .

 

• Keep doing the best version of your life without comparing & listening them