Failure is Good ? Why?

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Everybody has ever failed in their life . And I think failure is everyday . why? because, when we learn, read, practice or do something to add more value to your life is failure. Why? Because you still do that activity. If you don’t fail, you stop do that activity .Because you have already expert .

Anyway, Don’t be feeling blue if you failed to get something which you really want.

Have you ever read statement “Everything happened for reason” . And I think yeah, that’s true .

Alright, I’m gonna explain why failure is good in some points. Before I jump to my argument . Let me analyze what cause of failure ?

Failure steams from many aspects in life.

1)      It can be from God

Believe or not everything we do, there’s god’s hand in there.

For instance even though you have already done the strategies to reach your goals and you never forget to pray to god. Yet, in the end you failed to get them although you’ve tried again until you don’t have chance to get it with new version as you have ever failed, you learn from the mistake,but yeah, the result is still same. It means that god says “ Hey dear, it’s not good for your life “.  Don’t be disconsolate. There’re plenty goals is the best for your life.

 

2)      It can be from yourself

Sometimes we are often doing something new without knowing exactly about the things that we want to achieve . For instance :

·         you don’t have clue the stategy to achive it

·         you don’t circumspect when you want to accomplish your goal

·         you don’t cogent yourself, I mean you do it with half of heart

·         you don’t dissuade yourself to be consistent person

·         you are too disparage the situasion

·         And many more.

3)      It can be from people

We are just human but we don’t have power to control external. Sometimes the failure happened due to people around you, it can has huge reasons. For instance :

·         They don’t want give you opportunity to get the thing which you want

·         They are envy with your life

·         They throw “peer pressure to yourself”

·         They’re toxic people

·         And many more.

Alright, let’s jump to the reasons . why failure is good for your life ?

1)      You’re not craven person as you’ve already tried to get it.

2)      You can learn new things I mean like, how to conciliatory your emotions, to know new strategy

3)      You can corroborate people who have same circumstance with you

4)      You can be more intense person

5)      You are gonna get the reason why you are in that situation.

6)      And ample things that you are gonna get until you can say that “ thankful for myself I have ever failed”.

Hmm, I know some of you think that it’s tough in this situation because perhaps, you have already spent a lot of things for example time, money, material, energy, etc . it’s okay not to be okay in this cirsumpect yet, you have to move on. But, how ?

 Feel the emotions

    Don’t hold the emotions because it’s gonna exhausted . if you want to cry, let yourself to cry, write down your feeling or telling your story with people that you think they can be helper.

Accept the situations

            Live in this moment . accept everything has happened.

Tell to yourself that you have to accept this circumstance and move to new chapter

            Give motivation to yourself.

Learn from the failure

             Try to analyze those things have happened in your life. And due to those things, you are gonna get  new stategy and new plan .

Hang out with people

              Sometimes we live in this world , we need to listen to people's perspective , hence , you are gonna feel better. You can exchange your thoughts each other.

And many more you can do to overcome the failure.

 

    what do you think after read my article, are you more in peach ? but I want to say that Go head , since we still in this world, we still have a large number of things that we have not tried yet .

 

“life is Conundrum.Failure is normal As we are human, we can’t control future”

-Diansariislamypinem-

 

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